NATIONAL OLD MAID'S DAY
National Old Maid's Day falls on June 4 to recognize the women who never marry and remain childless. While the term may not seem to be flattering, we still think it's important to celebrate Old Maids everywhere and their honor their contributions to their families and communities.
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There was a time when a single woman over the age of 25 was considered an old maid. During the 17th century, many people referred to them as spinster or a thornback because they never married. Today, Old Maids are often career-oriented, postponing marriage, and motherhood by choice or by circumstance. From a lively social life to a commitment to volunteerism as well as involvement in their church, community organizations and their extended family Old Maids are hardly wallflowers waiting to be asked to dance.
While they may be single, being an old maid does not mean they are solitary. Beyond being active in their communities, these women often dedicate time to their extended family, too. Often they may organize family reunions or are the keeper of family history. These women are the glue that keeps families, communities, and organizations running smoothly.
Single women typically also have more friends than those in relationships. They are more apt to keep in touch with others. Their neighbors, colleagues, family, and relatives are all an important part of their social circle. Some studies show that single women are more involved in their community. They wear the title with pride because they don't lead a lonely life.
5 OLD MAID'S DAY CELEBRATIONS
Celebrate the day by revising your definition of an Old Maid to one that describes an empowered, independent woman who embraces life.
Get together with a group of your friends and play an Old Maids card game.
Take your single friend out of a night on the town.
Learn about the travels your single friends have taken.
As you celebrate the day, share your experiences as an Old Maid or honor a friend or family member on social media using the hashtag #OldMaidsDay.
NATIONAL OLD MAID'S DAY HISTORY
In 1948, Marion Richards of Jeffersonville, Pa, held the first Old Maid's Day gathering. According to a June 4, 1982, Asbury Park Press article, "Guests ranged from 75 years old down to an age when hope still flickered." Richard created the day to honor all the contributions Old Maids offer to their communities and their families.
During Richard's generation, single women played a major role in many areas of the schools, churches, offices, and their families. While June is full of floral bouquets, white lace, and wedding plans, Richards had hopes that Old Maid's Day would someday be as popular as Mother's Day.